That WOULD be a marked improvement over you falsely claiming that the rule already existed in the TOS, that it should have been obvious to begin with, and that the idea that we have the automatic right to edit or delete our own content is foolish, yes.
While I can only speak for myself, this was what I assumed it meant. Since that was my thought without any other input, I can see where Kyle would feel it was obvious. To say that he is 'falsely claiming' something, I think is a bit harsh. It seems to imply some form of deceit, which it obviously isn't. These kinds of misunderstandings are, unfortunately, why there are lawyers.
It likely is NOT a big deal, although I am unaware of how many times members have sought to delete stuff and been accommodated or denied.
I think you and S*S are talking about different things marpa.
How about this as a solution? We make a usergroup that has a delete button. If someone wants to delete posts, they can ask us, and we'll put them into that group. That way there's some communication and thought involved, but the control rests in the hands of the poster.
You could use the "Report to Moderator" button on your own post, but again, that's subject to mod discretion.