I find it depressing how eager people are to assign a gender. Surely that's the kind of thing common sense would say to wait on, till the person is old enough to decide on their own?
To answer this question in an uncontroversial way, you’d have to first get everyone to agree on what counts as intersex —and also to agree on what should count as strictly male or strictly female. That’s hard to do. How small does a penis have to be before it counts as intersex? Do you count “sex chromosome” anomalies as intersex if there’s no apparent external sexual ambiguity?1 (Alice Dreger explores this question in greater depth in her book Hermaphrodites and the Medical Invention of Sex.)Here’s what we do know: If you ask experts at medical centers how often a child is born so noticeably atypical in terms of genitalia that a specialist in sex differentiation is called in, the number comes out to about 1 in 1500 to 1 in 2000 births. But a lot more people than that are born with subtler forms of sex anatomy variations, some of which won’t show up until later in life.
Below we provide a summary of statistics drawn from an article by Brown University researcher Anne Fausto-Sterling.2 The basis for that article was an extensive review of the medical literature from 1955 to 1998 aimed at producing numeric estimates for the frequency of sex variations. Note that the frequency of some of these conditions, such as congenital adrenal hyperplasia, differs for different populations. These statistics are approximations.Not XX and not XY one in 1,666 birthsKlinefelter (XXY) one in 1,000 birthsAndrogen insensitivity syndrome one in 13,000 birthsPartial androgen insensitivity syndrome one in 130,000 birthsClassical congenital adrenal hyperplasia one in 13,000 birthsLate onset adrenal hyperplasia one in 66 individualsVaginal agenesis one in 6,000 birthsOvotestes one in 83,000 birthsIdiopathic (no discernable medical cause) one in 110,000 birthsIatrogenic (caused by medical treatment, for instance progestin administered to pregnant mother) no estimate5 alpha reductase deficiency no estimateMixed gonadal dysgenesis no estimateComplete gonadal dysgenesis one in 150,000 birthsHypospadias (urethral opening in perineum or along penile shaft) one in 2,000 birthsHypospadias (urethral opening between corona and tip of glans penis) one in 770 birthsTotal number of people whose bodies differ from standard male or female one in 100 birthsTotal number of people receiving surgery to “normalize” genital appearance one or two in 1,000 births
While I understand that some people do choose something different than they are assigned, I don't know that I'd say it's common sense to wait. It's equally surely easier to accomplish changes while the person is still in their infancy, before the impact of one's own hormones set in. From a medical and social standpoint, I think that doctors are doing the right thing by trying to fix at least the most severe cases - at least barring any evidence that large numbers of them choose something other than what they are assigned.
Sorry. I seriously didn't red more of your post than that, and it just confused me.
...You are the reason our society doesn't fucking function.
I find it interesting to notice that 1-2 out of 1000 receive corrective surgery, while apparently 1 in 1500-2000 babies are born visibly intersex. While I'd expect that some of these simply cannot afford the surgery, I suspect that many of these are born with issues that are not felt severe enough to require medical repair, or where parents elect not to have the procedure done, or otherwise.