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Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« on: October 10, 2011, 09:19:30 PM »
While not discussion the attractiveness of naughty/intimate/nsfw images of people currently pregnant or in the family way to viewers; I'm curious if being pregnant has changed anyone's opinions either way on posing for naughty/intimate/nsfw images. 
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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #1 on: October 11, 2011, 03:39:21 AM »
Mmh, I dunno. I'm kind of in the "I did and now I don't" category. Personally, it's a case of not always feeling all that sexy to begin with -- and I don't see a point in taking naughty photos if I'm not feeling sexy. Part of 'not feeling sexy' is because I know that it squicks some people to think of pregnant women in sexual ways, and it's harder for me to feel sexy if my intended audience is going to take it as an "ewww" not an "ooooh". Part of it is because it's easier for me to feel emotionally vulnerable right now, and not in a way that's conducive to sexy feelings. Part of it is, undoubtedly, hormonal; sex just isn't always on my mind, and therefore being sexy isn't, either.

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #2 on: October 11, 2011, 12:05:55 PM »
Yeah, I don't feel sexy at all.  Haven't really the entire pregnancy, between the morning sickness in the 1st trimester and the tiredness/feelings of being huge since then.  Haven't even attempted sex in months (though we have agreed we really should at least once while I am huge, just for the experience of it if nothing else).  Have taken a few naked pictures, mostly for one friend who is very much into pregnant women, but I haven't posted them on here for the reason Cythy mentioned...I know that kind of picture can get equal responses "ewww" and "ooooh," and I have no desire to inspire "ewwww." 

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #3 on: October 12, 2011, 06:57:14 AM »
I think pregnant ladies are beautiful. I love seeing tasteful pictures of pregnant ladies...and if they are tastful...that's not bad either.
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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #4 on: October 12, 2011, 08:07:38 AM »
I think pregnant ladies are beautiful. I love seeing tasteful pictures of pregnant ladies...and if they are NOT tastful...that's not bad either.

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #5 on: October 12, 2011, 09:55:28 AM »
While not discussion the attractiveness of naughty/intimate/nsfw images of people currently pregnant or in the family way to viewers;

I'm confused about what this means.  I'm assuming it was supposed to say "While not discussing"?  But even then, I don't know what "or in the family way to viewers" means.  And does "Snaps" in the thread title mean pictures?  I assume it does.

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #6 on: October 12, 2011, 10:26:29 AM »
"In the family way" is a polite way to say "knocked up", and the addendum of "to viewers" presumably means "visibly pregnant", as opposed to recently pregnant chicks that havn't got fat yet.
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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #7 on: October 12, 2011, 11:55:54 AM »
I was interpreting the "to viewers" as a continuation of "the attractiveness"... to rephrase the original, this was my interpretation:

"While I'm not intending to discuss the specific attractiveness/desirability to any given audience of any specific women who are currently pregnant or images of said women, I am curious..."

Or, basically, "I'm not asking anyone to pass judgment on the idea of the known-to-be-currently-pregnant forumites posting naughty pics; I just have a general question on the topic."

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Also, Johnny, dear, don't ever use the phrase "visibly pregnant, as opposed to recently pregnant chicks that haven't got fat yet" to a pregnant woman's face. ;) She'll hit you (and/or burst into tears, hysterical or otherwise), regardless of her current status as vis a vis the relative obviousness of her gravid condition.
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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #8 on: October 12, 2011, 11:57:09 AM »
That is how I parsed it as well, Cythy.  <3
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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #9 on: October 13, 2011, 07:17:01 AM »
Fixed that for you, and AGREED. ;)

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #10 on: October 13, 2011, 08:46:52 AM »
Okay so I screwed up the question.

what I was puzzling over was if the experience of pregnancy changed one's view on "sexy" and pregnancy.

Lets say someone is an exhibitionist and likes taking pictures of themselves, becomes pregnant and suddenly doesn't want pictures taken anymore, b/c of any number of factors.

Conversely lets say someone was demure and not into pictures of themselves, becomes pregnant and suddenly does want pictures taken of themselves, b/c of any number of factors.

Some of this is perhaps vague brain musings, half formed ideas, better left in the junk drawer, but given the naughty kinky parental family people here, its seems an interesting idea to muse on.  The transformation of ideas as one shifts and evolves roles in life.

Sorry if I've not put it into focus right.

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #11 on: October 13, 2011, 08:57:07 AM »

Or, basically, "I'm not asking anyone to pass judgment on the idea of the known-to-be-currently-pregnant forumites posting naughty pics; I just have a general question on the topic."

Yeah that's it on the nose.  See I was trying to delicately phrase a question and did so, so delicately that everyone was like  "Something...something...Bunner naked and pregnant?"  "what the hell is he saying?!?!"

Also, Johnny, dear, don't ever use the phrase "visibly pregnant, as opposed to recently pregnant chicks that haven't got fat yet" to a pregnant woman's face. ;) She'll hit you (and/or burst into tears, hysterical or otherwise), regardless of her current status as vis a vis the relative obviousness of her gravid condition.

Also Protip:  Unless you're told by them, never ask or assume a woman is pregnant unless you are actively seeing a baby come out of her vagina.

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #12 on: October 13, 2011, 09:04:44 AM »
Part of 'not feeling sexy' is because I know that it squicks some people to think of pregnant women in sexual ways, and it's harder for me to feel sexy if my intended audience is going to take it as an "ewww" not an "ooooh".

This is one aspect that is perhaps its own thread, the whole "Once the 'Mom' switch is flipped on, the 'Woman1' switch is flipped off"


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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #13 on: October 13, 2011, 11:52:34 AM »
On a side-note, if Cythy were to post naughty pics with a baby bump, I would have to ask her permission to share them with my man, because she's gorgeous and he loves the nekkid pregnant wimmins.
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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #14 on: October 13, 2011, 12:27:40 PM »
On a side-note, if Cythy were to post naughty pics with a baby bump, I would have to ask her permission to share them with my man, because she's gorgeous and he loves the nekkid pregnant wimmins.

I totally agree. 

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #15 on: October 21, 2011, 05:10:18 PM »
Eep, naked pregnant Cythy pictures.  <brainmelt>

Ahem...  to answer the question as I believe it was posed - I've always kind of been an exhibitionist. When I was pregnant I did take naughty-ish pictures, both times.  In fact, a few of mine (and other's professed) favorite naughty-ish pictures of me are from when I was pregnant.  Not necessarily noticeably pregnant, but... <shrugs>

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Re: Naughty Snaps and Pregnancy, A topic of Discussion
« Reply #16 on: October 21, 2011, 06:02:35 PM »
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Also Protip:  Unless you're told by them, never ask or assume a woman is pregnant unless you are actively seeing a baby come out of her vagina.

This.  After I had my daughter, my already-round belly became a relatively prominent pot belly for my size, which NEVER WENT AWAY.  For the first couple years, I looked pregnant, rather than fat.  People kept asking when the baby was due, in various ways.  My stock response was to glance at my watch, do some mental math, and say "about fifteen months".  Not very nice, I'm afraid, but I always smiled after the apology and assured them it was quite all right, even if that day, it wasn't.